Father Figure

Growing up, Mr. Timothy Moorer’s father wasn’t around to support him, so he looked to a lot of his coaches and neighbors as role models instead. They taught him that when he was able, he ought to help others in return. He says, “When you receive something, it’s really fulfilling to give back.” So he started volunteering at the Covenant House Academy, and, since January 21, 2010, he has been a Residential Advisor at the Crisis Center, as well as an assistant with the internship program. In this role, Mr. Moorer has really become a father figure for the residents just like his neighbors were to him. Working at the Crisis Center, he noticed many of the young men have not received the discipline and “hard love” that they need to succeed as men in the world. He has stepped in and given that to them, saying he wants nothing in return except to see them succeed.

Part of what Mr. Moorer does as a role model is work closely with residents at CHM who have built up anger before coming here. He teaches them alternatives to anger and violence such as exercise and simply stepping away from a situation. When discipline is necessary, Mr. Moorer offers young men options and then talks to them about why they did something, what they can do to change, and what they can do to make sure it doesn’t happen that way again. He says it’s about asking them how they can be a positive person in their own life. Most importantly, Mr. Moorer teaches them respect – for themselves and for others. “You just show genuine care. I’m interested in them,” he says. In his view, father figures should teach young men hygiene, honesty and respect for women because after those things, help for oneself will come naturally. According to CHM resident, Jonathan, “He teaches the correct way to handle yourself as a male in the real world.”

As an ordained deacon, Mr. Moorer believes in acting as a genuine and honest role model, showing the young men of Covenant House how to be a true gentleman. And it certainty pays off. The residents at CHM respect Mr. Moorer deeply and appreciate his help in their lives. Crisis Center resident Christopher described that Mr. Moorer helped him see CHM as a place of healing and helping where he could look for a job and work through his anger. “Basically, he helped me get my life back together,” he explained. “He’s like a father figure to me…a father I never had.” Another resident, Michael, spoke very highly of Mr. Moorer as well. His eyes lit up with love as he said, “Since I’ve been here, Mr. Moorer has been like my father. He was one of the first staff who took to me and helped me get a leg up.” Mr. Moorer’s loving attitude and belief in the importance of a father figure is making a significant difference in the lives of CHM’s young men.

Now at the young age of 47, Mr. Moorer is happier than ever. He currently lives in Roseville. Since becoming divorced, he enjoys spending the extra time with his eleven year old daughter. He also prides himself of being Chaplin at his Motorcycle Club. Timothy Moorer’s story is truly remarkable. His dedication to Detroit’s youth is wonderful. Donate today to support the work of men at CHM like Mr. Moorer and help the young men here receive father figures in their lives.